For those who haven’t met Sasha yet, she thinks it’s a good idea to have your first meeting over a casual 3-4 hour lunch or dinner. According to her, this gives you enough time to get to know each other and see if there’s any chemistry without any rush.

But here’s the deal, Sasha really likes it when people are clear about what they want and can show their true selves online. She hopes that people who connect with her views or are just curious might even consider a longer first meeting, like spending the night together. She’d be pretty impressed if you’re up for that.

Also, if your date goes beyond three hours, make sure there’s some food involved. Going out to eat, ordering room service and enjoying it in bed, or cooking something together are all good options to satisfy your hunger during those long hangouts.

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